You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
The New Testament, particularly in the writings of Paul, presents a vivid contrast between behaviors and qualities that Christians are encouraged to “put off” and those they are advised to “put on” in their pursuit of Christ-likeness. Below is an overview of these qualities with references to specific scriptures:
Qualities to Put Off:
- Anger, Wrath, Malice: Christians are encouraged to let go of anger, wrath, and malice. (Colossians 3:8)
- Blasphemy, Filthy Language: Avoiding blasphemy and unwholesome talk is emphasized. (Colossians 3:8)
- Lying: Being truthful is a key aspect, hence the admonition to stop lying. (Colossians 3:9)
- Sexual Immorality: This includes any form of sexual activity outside the bounds of marriage. (Colossians 3:5)
- Impurity, Lust: These are often linked to sexual sins but can apply to other areas of life as well. (Colossians 3:5)
- Greed: Described as idolatry, greed for material possessions is discouraged. (Colossians 3:5)
- Bitterness, Rage, Brawling, Slander: All forms of hostility and ill-will are to be put away. (Ephesians 4:31)
- Envy: This involves resenting the good fortune of others. (Galatians 5:26)
Qualities to Pursue:
- Compassion, Kindness: Showing empathy and kindness is highly valued. (Colossians 3:12)
- Humility, Gentleness: These qualities reflect the character of Christ. (Colossians 3:12; Ephesians 4:2)
- Patience: Bearing with one another and forgiving each other. (Colossians 3:13)
- Forgiveness: As the Lord forgave, so should Christians forgive. (Colossians 3:13)
- Love: Described as the bond of perfection, it is the greatest virtue. (Colossians 3:14; 1 Corinthians 13:1-13)
- Peace of Christ: Letting Christ’s peace rule in hearts. (Colossians 3:15)
- Thankfulness: Being grateful is a key attitude. (Colossians 3:15)
- Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, Self-Control: These are the fruits of the Spirit to be cultivated. (Galatians 5:22-23)
This list is not exhaustive but captures some of the primary qualities discussed in Paul’s letters in the context of Christian living. Each of these qualities and their opposites are part of a broader moral and ethical framework that Paul sets out for believers, aiming to align their lives more closely with the teachings and example of Jesus Christ.